What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
Last Updated: 21.06.2025 04:33
1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…
Have you ever been instructed/forced to crossdress for the benefit of others?
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
Do you think this brought you closer together?
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
How do you feel about the impending end of what Donald Trump calls "the Green New scam"?
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
How do I come out as queer to my best friend in a funny and stupid way?
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
What is your most intimate experience with your best friend?
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
What is your review of the Redmi 9A? Is it worth buying?
Take the short quiz here @ Discover Your Love Language® - The 5 Love Languages®
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
Why can't hot girls date ugly guys? I am ugly but I want an attractive girlfriend
*** Random Questions ***
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***
Why are Boomers so vehemently opposed to student loan forgiveness?
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
52~ What are your hobbies?
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?
19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?
14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
How many times do you think you have “made love”?
17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)
40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
What is your favorite position? Why?
5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
Any that are a turn off?
6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
How old are you? Male or Female?
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
29- How superstitious are you?
I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
If you win, what will you make them do?
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?
39~ What are your love languages?
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
Any that are a turn off?
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
Nothing too Serious
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
Please share Did you stop?
Family Relation Age Play
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
*** Questions About Me ***
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?
92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
Have you ever? Care to Share?
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
62~ Have you used adult toys?
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?
The Ice Breaker Questions
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
Would you read them together?
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?
If yes, what?
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?